It’s been really long that Write Hand has not interacted with you, reason!! May be it’s trying to recollect itself. Anyways the topic this time may appear to be quite puzzling, most of you will think that its something related to me and my life’s problem but it’s something which includes each of us. What do we feel when we think about our self? How does it sense being your self to others and to you expressly? It will be little tedious to clutch the actual sense of it, because we never feel so accountable towards our self in order to justify our identity to our soul. Obviously it does not affect that what others think about us but still we are always worried for their responses and the ways they should think about us. Unquestionably we feel so privileged being our self though we keep on complaining about life and the problems it has gifted to us. And I wonder how others always assume that the person around them has more luck and fewer sufferings! Although we are also others to someone else yet we are different and happier. Become moneyed and famous is one our castle in Spain that’s why we think that being Anil Ambani, Shahrukh Khan, Bill Gates, Ratan Tata, Manmohan Singh is the best one can ever be in life. But does it make any sense that we forgot the advantages of being our self just to taste the regal cuisine of others! Could these eminent personalities ever think of going out in the market to taste the spicy street food? Could they think of making probable plans for their weekend other than planning out their business trips? They don’t know how it feels to manage a dinner date with girlfriend having fewer pennies in pocket. They celebrate victory by opening up bottles of sparkling wine with ten people but miss the chance to share a crazy shout and tight hug with thousands. Shares, acquisitions, mergers, mutual funds, dividends sounds so classy but do they sound more vivacious and soothing than movies, street food, hang over, bunk, savings, roses, play stations!! The point is not to criticise the value of money but to realise the more imperative and precious things in life which are priceless. Being them is a materialistic task but being “ME” is an exquisite and laborious task.
Being “ME” is a fascinating fact that inspires to live more, do more, have more. But some hows at some point of time it arrests our self to the limited and meticulous doings. We are not any public figure so can not examples our self so let’s talk with reference to a public figure. Anna Hazare is a great socialite; he is being supported by the millions of Indian for his kick against corruption but what would he do if he needs to be little flawed at any point where he does not have any apt option to move out. Either he has to surrender himself or has to adopt that option. Thus being him restricts himself at times to some extent, so is the case with us. Each of us has some certain characterised habits and deeds that are being expected from us by others. Willingly or unwillingly we have to trail the path which we have beached for us. If I please each of my friends every time, help them as and when they needed then I can not even dare to think of not pleasing or helping them at any point; though even may be I am not so able or in a perfect situation to do so. Because if I do so they would hardly accept it, In fact I shall not be able to deal with such situation, as never faced it before.
So it really counts by others that how well you perform being your self and it really matters that how well you enjoy, live, gain, sacrifice by being “ME”.
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