It’s been really long that Write Hand has not interacted with you, reason!! May be it’s trying to recollect itself. Anyways the topic this time may appear to be quite puzzling, most of you will think that its something related to me and my life’s problem but it’s something which includes each of us. What do we feel when we think about our self? How does it sense being your self to others and to you expressly? It will be little tedious to clutch the actual sense of it, because we never feel so accountable towards our self in order to justify our identity to our soul. Obviously it does not affect that what others think about us but still we are always worried for their responses and the ways they should think about us. Unquestionably we feel so privileged being our self though we keep on complaining about life and the problems it has gifted to us. And I wonder how others always assume that the person around them has more luck and fewer sufferings! Although we are also others to someone else yet we are different and happier. Become moneyed and famous is one our castle in Spain that’s why we think that being Anil Ambani, Shahrukh Khan, Bill Gates, Ratan Tata, Manmohan Singh is the best one can ever be in life. But does it make any sense that we forgot the advantages of being our self just to taste the regal cuisine of others! Could these eminent personalities ever think of going out in the market to taste the spicy street food? Could they think of making probable plans for their weekend other than planning out their business trips? They don’t know how it feels to manage a dinner date with girlfriend having fewer pennies in pocket. They celebrate victory by opening up bottles of sparkling wine with ten people but miss the chance to share a crazy shout and tight hug with thousands. Shares, acquisitions, mergers, mutual funds, dividends sounds so classy but do they sound more vivacious and soothing than movies, street food, hang over, bunk, savings, roses, play stations!! The point is not to criticise the value of money but to realise the more imperative and precious things in life which are priceless. Being them is a materialistic task but being “ME” is an exquisite and laborious task.
Being “ME” is a fascinating fact that inspires to live more, do more, have more. But some hows at some point of time it arrests our self to the limited and meticulous doings. We are not any public figure so can not examples our self so let’s talk with reference to a public figure. Anna Hazare is a great socialite; he is being supported by the millions of Indian for his kick against corruption but what would he do if he needs to be little flawed at any point where he does not have any apt option to move out. Either he has to surrender himself or has to adopt that option. Thus being him restricts himself at times to some extent, so is the case with us. Each of us has some certain characterised habits and deeds that are being expected from us by others. Willingly or unwillingly we have to trail the path which we have beached for us. If I please each of my friends every time, help them as and when they needed then I can not even dare to think of not pleasing or helping them at any point; though even may be I am not so able or in a perfect situation to do so. Because if I do so they would hardly accept it, In fact I shall not be able to deal with such situation, as never faced it before.
So it really counts by others that how well you perform being your self and it really matters that how well you enjoy, live, gain, sacrifice by being “ME”.
Wishing all my dear readers a very happy new year, may almighty bless you with the best of the virtues and power to use your capabilities. It’s been really long we have not met, well this time I wish to share something which is very common to all of us but still knowingly overlooked. This habit has almost become a phenomenon and its nothing butSMOKING. The sleek stick filled with tobacco gives immense pleasure and honor to the holder rather say owner of it. It’s considered as a royal signature which adds a unique feather to the hat of glory. Probably the most demanding article in the market by the youth (future of a country) and asking for cigarette is a matter of great taste. The man having this stick in a hand is supposed as a paragon of personality and attitude. Not only man but now women are also showing the sign of real women empowerment and competitiveness by having such a taste of glory. When smoke from this sleekly killer stick creates beautiful white light cloud of fume which ask for the applause for the great deed. Isn’t it…?
But, this self-proclaimed stylish society forgets the other ordinary poor people present nearby. The innocent people, reluctantly becomes the passive smokersand inhales the poisonous style of royal smoker class. According to research held by WHO in 2010 the 11% of the lungs cancer cases occurs due to passive smoking and 7.5 % of the babies suffers from the asthma problem due to their surrounding smokers. These alarming figures may not wake up the royal smokers but at least it should be taken into serious notice. And they ought to realize that their stylish habit harming the others badly. Though the Indian government has banned the smoking in the public areas but still the royal smokers find the privacy to pursue their style.
The passive smoker always tries to shun the gathering of such royal class but it’s like making a hollow attempt of catching a star. Because out of every 100 college going youth 72 are smokers, the benevolence of these smokers rest 28 becomes the passive smokers. The royal smoker class for whom having a cigarette box in a pocket means more than a blackberry handset. They may forget to bring identity card of the college but not the cigarette box, theidentity card for the royal society of smokers. And theargument that smoking helps in thinking process although research says that nicotine affects the brain negatively.
We the passive smokers with due regard to thesethoughtful royal smokers rather royal customers of death wants to put up a very few genuine queries:
Why do they inhale when they want to exhale it again?
Why do they use filter when it anyways going to harm them?
Leaving these two queries in the note, the write hand on behalf of all passive smokers present the vote of gloom to the smokers and request to make us gratis from their poisonous web called SMOKING!!!
With the warm and heartiest greetings of this breezy december, write hand this time brings certain well acquainted but unfamiliar thoughts to you all. After almost 60 years of struggle finally (expectantly) the beliefs of Indian people got a legal affirmation for their subsistence. A core committee of three people confides the candor of mythological traits sheltered by the Indian society.
Pessimistic thought process we do have but do we really mean it while going for an action! I guess the Ayodhya case can throw good light upon it. Country does not build of just population but the beliefs they have, the hopes, the regrets, the dreams this all makes any country to be called as a nation. ‘Diversity but unity’ these two words are used to describe INDIA. Each and every member of Indian society has been taught to consider all the religious beliefs equally since childhood. We firmly say that we are rigid and honest follower of equality, so here I would present a simple query that while filing the case for the property right of Ayodhya bhumi had our senses gone insane or paralyzed! Within a fraction of time we lost a long back constructed ideology! We become so careless regarding the most caring thing of humanity. Our soul might not allow us to accept our carelessness but we ourselves are the witness of our insanity. So the ultimate stride that can be mentioned here is to make a humble appeal to our dear god (including ishwar, allah, jesus, waheguru) to personally look into the matter and bestow his kind presence that could be registered by the law. And that can be further utilize to guide the next generation that their forefathers have already fought upon god’s place, and god now has a lawfully registered place to live and survive. This would possibly make god to feel more secured and authentic, isn’t it! and searching for the god hither and thither should no more because every god would be having their own legally registered place. Every prayer would be paid under the prescribed sections of law. How amazing it would be!
“We shall overcome… We shall overcome... One day... Oho deep in my heart I do believe that we shall overcome one day” the brilliant fervent lines of a patriotic song reflects our commitment towards duty. Dedication, commitment, sincerity, responsibility very nice words to listen, to talk about and to mention in our speeches. Do we ever understand that what we are doing and what we are told to do, we talk about so many things but do we actually mean them! I feel there is a gigantic difference between these two habits.
Since my infancy whenever I look upon the things I found them strange to me but familiar to my ideology, quite confusing, isn’t it! But simply I meant to say that what I always think about and what I actually found in the world are two lines of a railway track which travels along but never meet. There is always two bulls fight in my mind, ultimately the who wins is the one whom I feed the most. Then after concluding a single thought with supportive facts is good task to hang around with.There is always a tide of thoughts in our mind and this tide provokes us to take certain reactions or to make up our mind for a particular thing. Same is the case with me, when things comes to my way I take them along but the bulls of my mind starts fighting, and whom to feed well becomes a decisive action. This tide of thoughts and summary of bulls fight comes out through veins of my hand. And my hand gets a reason to work which results in the writing.
This hand writes about the things candidly and sarcastically as well. It treats the scenes with its distinct ideology. Everything which surrounds it plays the role of motivator. With this my hand welcomes u in its world of thoughts, confusions and conclusions.
